Annoyed
I'm selfish really rarely. When I do it means a lot. And for my little sister who has known to have sentimental things, it frustrates me that she doesn't understand how much the thing means to me. Plus, I'm sure if anyone were to pick, they'd pick her over me. This thing is special to me and I don't want her to have it. I said she can borrow it, but can't have it. She badly wants one of her own but she's gotten most of the things she wanted anyway. And she'll recieve plenty more. I told her she can have someone get one for her. Yet she still wants what's mine and what I badly want. I feel angry and heavily annoyed.
@littleSpring3582
you have every right to be annoyed and frankly it is hard when you have been either nice or forced to share with a sibling.... and YES in some times it is OK and i believe healthy to stand up and say NO this one thing is MINE and you can not have it....
when we always deny ourselves... tell ourselves we are so generous and good always letting others have their way.... but sooner or later we need to stand up and put ourselves first.