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Betrayal by best friend

User Profile: blueIdea6993
blueIdea6993 June 11th, 2023

I have been with my best friend all these times whenever she needed me I have sacrificed my everything just to be with her and helped her with my everything but she left me all alone to battle with my problems and made a new bestie and made me felt left out of her life.

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 June 11th, 2023

@blueIdea6993

I am sorry to hear that ..... was she ever there for you in the past and changed or did you provide all the support and only when you truly needed someone they were NOT there.

Far too many IMO want someone to be there for them but do not return the support....... they may have moved on knowing they had no intention of being the "friend" you needed.

User Profile: DarlDez
DarlDez June 12th, 2023

Wow @toughtiger6481. I totally agree with you. Some people just take whatever they need and move onto something / someone else.


I used to have a friend like similar to your description @bluedea6993. Then we had a severe falling out and it was so dramatic. To cut the long story short, after the whole incident, I realised that I’ve always been there for her, listening to her own issues and breakups or whatever she needed. She’s never sought me out for anything else, neither has she been on the other side, sharing a listening ear. Zilch.



now I feel so much better because I have more time to invest in myself.



i hope you know that you are not alone @bluedea6993. You got this! 👍🏼