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Feeling really sad and lonely

User Profile: SoundingVoid
SoundingVoid April 24th, 2025

Guys I'm new to 7 cup and iv come her because I wanted to share my emotions with people who actually understands me and can give ears on my voice. I have autism and recently only I found out about it. After my friends found out about my situation they all left me alone in this hard time. We were friends for more than a decade and now they all just left me for absolute no reason, I really cared about them and they meant a lot to me. I'm feeling really down due to that and please if someone could just talk with me it would really mean a lot to me

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 April 24th, 2025

@SoundingVoid

I think that is a lot to go through.      How has your diagnosis changed you?   You are same person they have been friends with all this time. 

If they were real friends they would not have left just because you had a diagnosis.   Have you talked to them and asked why?  what changed?   

So many times when something happens  like a person walking away we do not talk but assume it was _insert reason______. 


User Profile: SoundingVoid
SoundingVoid OP April 25th, 2025

I did tired to connect with them but they just ignored me. I still tried several times but I guess they weren't the people i should have trusted on.

User Profile: healsymbiosis1
healsymbiosis1 April 25th, 2025

Those people didn't deserve you. They were not honest in their friendship. You need to move on and find new friends.

User Profile: SoundingVoid
SoundingVoid OP April 25th, 2025

I don't know my decade old friends left me and now after the diagnose i don't have the courage to make any new friends. I don't want to lie but I fear that it will be repeated to me again