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User Profile: permanentnight
permanentnight June 29th, 2023

I feel so alone. The main person I talk to/hang out with is my younger sister and that just feels so pathetic. Whenever I do actually hang out with my friends, I feel invisible. For example, about a week ago, we all went somewhere together, and the other two kept talking about something that happened and that I wasn't a part of. The one asked the other if they should tell me what was going on, and then they both agreed not to. Later on, they brought it up again, still acting as if I wasn't there. I just feel like *** every time I hang out with these friends but I struggle so hard trying to talk to new people.

Anyways, this is my first time posting anything on here lol. No one has to respond to this or anything, I just felt like ranting, but if anyone wants to talk lmk.

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User Profile: imaginativePenguin1204
imaginativePenguin1204 June 29th, 2023

I can relate to friendship struggles. I only have one really good friend but she has so many other friends that if I go to her we talk and have a good time with all her friends but if I don't it is rare that she will come to me. And when I do talk to her I feel guilty because I am keeping her from her other friends and when I am with her and her other friends I too feel invisible. :(

User Profile: Clarezg
Clarezg July 6th, 2023

I can't imagine how isolating that must feel not knowing what's going on. I understand the struggle of meeting new people too I'm quite the introvert so I have trouble making friends as well. It's hard to meet people but I truly hope you can find friends that value your presence and make you feel included.

User Profile: peaceparadime
peaceparadime July 11th, 2023

I have the same thing bro.

we”ll get there.

User Profile: sunnyStorm4268
sunnyStorm4268 July 22nd, 2023

I feel the exact same, well do you wanna be my friend🙃

User Profile: sympatheticWalker9328
sympatheticWalker9328 July 22nd, 2023

Let's be friends then.

User Profile: WellsFiction
WellsFiction July 23rd, 2023

@permanentnight My advice is be more open with them. Tell them how you feel. Maybe they will listen or maybe they won't. Let them know your side matters too. No one deserves to feel lonely.