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Friendship issue

Hi,i have a relationship issue. Exactly,what does it mean when my friend told me that I'm the most important person to her then she didn't care about what's going on in my life for two years?

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User Profile: selfconfidentTiger8983
selfconfidentTiger8983 May 20th, 2023

It can be frustrating when someone tells you that you are the most important person to them but doesn't really care about your life. This may indicate a lack of consistency or genuine interest in maintaining meaningful friendships. Communication is essential to resolve this issue and understand her point of view. Assess the overall balance of the friendship and prioritize your emotional health. Surround yourself with people who really value and support you.

User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 May 20th, 2023

@fairmindedBlackberry1244

Maybe you were the most important to ....them.... you provided them with what they needed...

they did not factor in what you need. that was not on their radar of important.

User Profile: cindyzheng1344
cindyzheng1344 May 20th, 2023

@fairmindedBlackberry1244 In this situation, it's possible that your friend may have had reasons or circumstances that prevented her from being there for you during those two years. However, it's also important to address your feelings and concerns with her directly. Open communication can help provide clarity and a better understanding of her perspective. Express your feelings calmly and honestly, sharing how her actions have made you feel neglected or unsupported. Give her the opportunity to explain herself and listen to her response. It's possible that there may have been misunderstandings or reasons you were unaware of.

User Profile: fairmindedBlackberry1244
fairmindedBlackberry1244 OP May 21st, 2023

Thank you so much