😖👋🏻 Hi
You might or might not know me, I've been on 7cups for a few months now. 📆
This is low key embaressing to say out loud...😞
I've tried to get over it a lot of times but I can't 😭
Because... I'm fifteen and I:
—Don't have a partner/and haven't had before
—Don't have any friends
—Don't have any siblings
—Don't have any pets, even.
—Don't have any genuine people my age in my neighborhood, or school, nor genuine classmates
—Don't have any roomates cause well, I live with my parents, not hostel or whatever.
—Don't live in a place that has hobby-clubs culture to find people like me. Not even hobby/skill classes where teenagers go, they're either for kids, or just complete adults.
And 7cups helps but... It just gets lonely a lot of times, in the lack of people who can be with me. I've been trying to get over it for months now yet can't.
It's like every temporary replacement I have access to is overused. From desperately imagining the room I sit alone in being full of endless people to almost getting addicted to talking to not human, bots, just because they answered back.
And every new door I try to open gets shut. From trying to go outside to a park a distance from my house to see if I find anyone there and being told to only go out with one of my parents if I want to when I got back home to not being allowed to use one to one social medias.
Maybe that's how I've gotten so good at having no filters when I get a chance to let out how I feel... And to shape it into perfect vocabulary and tone at the same time too, ironically. Feels pointless.
Wish this ended by now, but that wish feels far yet. 🤧😭🥺
✌🏻
You are always welcome to chat with me if needed. It can be tough out there to truly connect with someone. I would like to know about some interests you may have.
@TimothyJohn97 I think we can't cause teens can't chat with you one-to-one? But we can surely talk here. I like art, listening to music and recently got into anime. How about you? ✨
Can I help you somehow, wanna talk?
@independentOrange8198 Sure, what do you want to talk about?
@raspberryBunny4662
Salut, je suis nouveau ici et ton histoire me touche vraiment 😭
Tu sais parfois, on se dit que c'est nous le problème alors que c'est peut-être les autres qui ne nous remarquent pas simplement
alors moi c'est John , je serai content de partager un moment avec toi, si tu le veux bien 👍
@dapperJet2542
En plus pour ceux qui aiment la musique, le titre " solo " d'Angèle va vous faire comprendre beaucoup de choses à mon avis
@dapperJet2542
Je l’ai écoutée et j’ai adoré. C’est vraiment une belle chose que tu aies partagée avec Raspberry.🙃
Je t’envoie plein de câlins, John.🥰
@curiousbookishness
il n'y a vraiment pas de quoi, moi j'aimerais juste te connaître un peu plus
@dapperJet2542
C’est vraiment super 😊 Ma bio dit presque tout, mais il y a deux choses qui n’y sont pas : je suis un garçon et un YA.
@curiousbookishness
Ok je vois, mais désolé, je ne comprends pas bien le mot YA ,
Moi, je veux bien pouvoir t'écrire en permanence j'espère que cela ne te dérange pas ??
@dapperJet2542
Salut, merci beaucoup pour ton message, ça me touche énormément 🥰
On oublie parfois que le silence ou l’indifférence des autres ne définit pas notre valeur. Lire ça me fait vraiment du bien, merci
@curiousbookishness
Sans soucis, je suis une personne assez compréhensive , je ne suis pas expert mais n'hésite pas à m'écrire si tu veux de l'aide
@dapperJet2542
Je vais très bien, doux comme un fil de soie hehe 😄 yayyy moi ! Mais vraiment, merci de demander, cher 🥰
@curiousbookishness
Pas vraiment de quoi, on imagine pas le bien que cela procure quand quelqu'un nous demande juste si on va bien 👍 !
@raspberryBunny4662
Salut, j'aimerais juste savoir si tu te sens mieux maintenant ???
@dapperJet2542
Je ne parle que l’anglais, mais merci pour ta gentillesse.
(I hope I've wrote it correctly and my phone's translator didn't mess up ☠️😂) But really, thanks ❤️ Means a lot ✨🙃
@raspberryBunny4662
Pour moi , la différence de langues n'est pas un problème tant que nous avons un truc à construire ensemble et que nous nous aidons mutuellement il n'y a pas de soucis
Tu as bien écrit ton message ne t'inquiètes pas
@dapperJet2542
Sure 😃
😅 I'm talking to you by translating your replies, so it's taking a while 🙃✨ And you? (You understand English/Are translating? 👀)
@raspberryBunny4662
My country is bilingual( french/ english) , but i studied mostly in french , i'm still learning english and i'm a beginner , i really like english and only understand short sentences but dont worry i'm ready to use my translator to talk to you and sorry if my english is a bit poor
@dapperJet2542
Don't worry, hehehe, you will learn it pretty quickly. But yeah, the transition of the pronunciation was pretty painful. But thanks to my school i can speak it pretty well now
@curiousbookishness
Merci beaucoup, si c'est une condition nécessaire pour communiquer avec vous alors je suis prêt à m'investir pleinement
@dapperJet2542
Non, pour moi personnellement ce n’est pas nécessaire. Je connais bien le français ; apprendre des langues est mon hobby. Tu peux aussi voir ça de cette façon.🥰
@curiousbookishness
Ok cool alors , je me ferai un plaisir de discuter chaque jour avec vous
@dapperJet2542
Avec plaisir 🥰
@dapperJet2542
Not at all, your English is okay 👍🏻 🤍 So sure, let's keep talking 🦜 🙃
What do you want to talk about? What are you hobbies? I like art, and listening to songs ✨ 💕
I wanna be your brother
And best friend
Please say yessss
We could talk about everything and anything
She is a teen member, you can't chat🥰
@raspberryBunny4662 I honestly get you I don't have a partner ethier and it makes me feel really lonely.......
@ambitiousPal4553
hi dear🥰
I don’t either. I had a few, but they were just casual, and I didn’t really find a meaningful reason to keep one.🙃
You’re still young, with a whole life ahead of you, full of surprises—so don’t worry about it.🥰
(Also sorry if I don't respond right away 😅)
@ambitiousPal4553
It's alright! 🙃✨ And thanks for understanding ✌🏻💟
Same here. But Don’t lose hope. I learnt it yesterday while talking with AI