I did nothing wrong.
Everyone hates me for no absolute reason. No matter how kind I am to them they always mock me, bully me or make comments of me that really hurt and ofc I’m not going to say them here because I’m not sure if I even can bc of how bad they are. I currently have only 2 friends at my school and 1 girl I am friends with but she is across the whole country and I don’t get to see her everyday. My whole life I’ve grown up with only 1-3 friends. I used to be in this group of 5 before at school and I thought that I finally made the perfect friend group but I didn’t. Two of them were backstabbers and were spreading lies and rumours about us so we all left the group. Me and the two extra girls who stayed in the group, we all still talk. One of them is named austeja, she’s super kind and funny and we are always talking, calling, having sleepovers and plays games together. The other girl is named Sophia, I love her so much bc she’s the only person in this world on who has never said smth mean about me or never left me for another group but this past summer she hasn’t texted me at all. The only time she would text me when she wanted to go to town and hangout together when all her other friends say no and once I said “okay!” So we hung out in town but turns out we actually didn’t just hang out together by ourselves. She told her boyfriend where we were and he started to hang out with us and after I put the pieces together, she only wanted to hangout just so she could she her bf and talk with him the whole time and not me. Idk what to do anymore guys I just need advice..
@HeidiRose23
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You are not a bad person.
You don't deserve to be mocked or insulted.
You matter.
It's better to have one good friend than many fakes ones.
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@HeidiRose23
Difficulty with friendship is a lifelong thing IMO. This is a example of a growth opportunity. I think many of us that do not make friends easy hang on to a couple of them and then feel disrespected when those we thought we could trust use us.
I have had many times when i got a call or text to hang out only to find they had other ideas ... maybe they wanted company when they did errands or maybe they wanted me to help them with things. even wanting me to drive them places.
A few people have used our friendship to go somewhere and meet up with a bf etc. While a bit disappointing it is not a new thing. Would you have gone to hang out if she had been honest in saying we are going to meet up with my BF?
This is not a reflection on you but a selfish move on her part.
It is not a being right or wrong but about being honest about what people intend.
