I'm in a bad situation right now, what would you do?
I have been best friends with this one girl for so long (since elementary) we are inseparable and we do everything together. We were having a sleepover together and she told me a big secret of hers, that she had a crush on this one girl that she saw in school (she's openly bi and so is that girl). however, i'm in the closet and i have a crush on the same girl. im not ready to come out to her or anyone but i don't wanna sit around and watch my crush and my friend start dating. what should i do? should i suck it up? should i just lie and tell her she's dating someone else?
@HamSamwitch thats actually such a difficult situation 😔 even thinking about let aside seeing someone we have a crush on be with someone else and for that someone to be our friend seems so harddd 🥺
v oki to take time to come out but do you feel your friend would understand if you tell her? she probably been through it all herself and might be more accepting of you, I hope
honestly i can only speak for self as im not in this situation but lying to my closest friend wouldn't be something id do as it could be real bad if they get to know and lose my friend ... idk if a crush wud be so important to me than my friend and I wouldn't wanna be selfish about this with them tbh and knowing me id probably want them to be happy and do whatever that makes them happy even if breaks my heart....
it's real confusing and messed but i hope you can figure some way out to deal with the situation 💕 remember your feelings are important too!