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Is it wrong to expect this from my best friend

User Profile: determinedMoon783
determinedMoon783 October 9th, 2023

So i needed to buy a shoulder support band to fix my posture and was going to order one online. My friend offered that we go on the weekend to a shop and try it and get the right size.

We had a fight and he wasn’t available for 3 days which included the weekend.

Today i asked him if we can go to get it and he said he has plans for the evening. I said thats fine can you not make plans for tomorrow so we can go get the support band.

He got mad at me that how can you expect me to cancel my plans for something that will just take one hour. I only asked him to be available. I wouldve bought it online if he didnt say that its better to buy from a shop and that he would go with me.

Now hes mad at me because i asked him one day in advance when he doesnt already have a plan for tomorrow to be available tomorrow for this.

I s expecting this wrong?

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 October 9th, 2023

@determinedMoon783

No you were not wrong........ but this happens .. sometimes.

People in a moment offer to do something and while they may mean well.....but fitting in the time to go do this was not thought out before he said it....

then when you ask believing his offer was genuine he now may feel pressured when the initial offer was more of gesture.    either go to a store and find in on your own or order one hoping for correct fit.