I’ve never had a friend group last
It normally always ends because I do something stupid and get them all mad at me. I’m sometimes able to salvage them but then something else happens that messes everything up for me, I want to be better but it’s difficult because of the fact that I struggle knowing how to set boundaries with others or knowing what theirs are.
@BigSadGirl
I relate to this to a degree. Do you ever feel that it’s better for you to keep quiet as to not aggravate your friends because you might make them mad at you? I felt that with a lot of my friends. Sorry you have to go through the same things.
@Ar4571 Yeah, whenever I get myself in trouble I tend not to say anything and wait for it to get better. The sad part is these people don’t see me as a friend anymore, they see me as a danger and want to spread awareness of me
@BigSadGirl
Sometimes for me, my friends would talk about a subject I’m really interested in but I shut myself up because I’m too scared to mess up from prior times and it just frustrates me.
That ever happen to you?
@Ar4571 Oh definitely, I do it because I do it because I don’t want to be viewed as annoying or bratty, especially in the friend group that I lost where I was always viewed as a dumb brat. It’s difficult especially when some of my hyper fixations not that many people get interested in
@BigSadGirl
i see. For me it was always that I had to watch my mouth sometimes as to not seem ‘too smart’. I had a tendency of correcting my friends and that made them think of me as annoying or trying to make them look dumb when I was just trying to help out.
I've never had a friend group last either now I'm scared it will repeat again
