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BigSadGirl
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PathStep 9 Compassion hearts33 Forum posts16 Forum upvotes20 Current upvotes20 Age GroupAdult Last activeJuly, 2024 Member sinceJanuary 5, 2023
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Comfort Shows?
TV & Movies / by BigSadGirl
Last post
 August 3rd, 2023
...See more I was wondering what are your Comfort Shows and/or Movies? Mine is My Little Pony Friendship is Magic, it was a show I watched a lot when I was younger and it always makes me happy!
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My Grandma
Grief & Loss / by BigSadGirl
Last post
 August 8th, 2023
...See more Almost 3 years ago I lost my grandma on my dads side, I miss her so much and I started thinking about her a lot lately. I honestly don’t know how’d she feel about things like my bisexuality but I still loved her a lot even if she did have her flaws, I hope she’s in a better place now and I hope I’ll one day be able to see her again. I know she was basically used as a test dummy because she died of a very rare strain of cancer and that just makes me so mad to know, she didn’t even die trying to be saved, she died treated as an object, which is so horrible, she put up a fight for about 4 years before her death, I honestly just feel sick knowing it was 4 years treated as less than human
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Should I Come Out To My Mom?
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by BigSadGirl
Last post
 August 8th, 2023
...See more I recently thought about this while thinking of all the controversy I was in (and honestly still am in) and was thinking of telling my mom I want to go to therapy for it but that would also mean her possibly finding out I’m bi and a Demi girl, my dad (who she is not with anymore) doesn’t see, accepting of LGBTQ+ people but my mom does have some friends who are part of it, I m unsure of telling her about either of these but honestly I don’t know if I can hold all this inside me much longer, I don’t wanna deny who I am anymore but I’m just so scared she’ll hate me or hurt me, I just want to know what I should do?
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I made mental progress for months and it all just collapsed
Trauma Support / by BigSadGirl
Last post
 July 30th, 2023
...See more At the end of last year I was dealing with very bad anxiety/panic attacks, I felt anxious almost 24/7, I decided to take some time to myself after and that ended up being good for me. It wasn’t all easy and I did have similar feelings throughout February but I eventually managed to overcome it. A month ago I was put into a bad state again by school but I got through it, I reconnected with some old friends even. Unfortunately I lost pretty much everything recently, my friends and by extension support system, my creative outlets, pretty much everything because I hurt someone and I have no way to make it up other than to stay focused on my irl life and get help (which I’m trying to do for now), I don’t know what to do, I was having a mostly alright year and getting better but everything just fell apart, I don’t know how to fix it or who I can go to, I’m not pretending to be a victim but I do want to become better. I just want to be able to fix everything, I wish I could just go back and not do the stupid things I did, I went from having a better life finally to being right back where I started, hating everything and feeling hated by everything and everyone, I feel like I’m going to have a breakdown at every moment like I did before I got better and I don’t know if I can do it again because it took me almost a year to get to where I was.
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I’ve never had a friend group last
Friendship Support / by BigSadGirl
Last post
 May 3rd, 2025
...See more It normally always ends because I do something stupid and get them all mad at me. I’m sometimes able to salvage them but then something else happens that messes everything up for me, I want to be better but it’s difficult because of the fact that I struggle knowing how to set boundaries with others or knowing what theirs are.
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