Losing myself
Hey all, I am new on here, I find myself so busy with work, studies looking after my parents, that I feel like I'm slipping into a dark hole of exhaustion, like many I am lonely too after a break up of an 8yr relationship and the end of a 20 year friendship my friendship circle has gotten small, having mild anxiety and depression I tend to hide out at home often, I am sure many can relate...if anyone wants to connect and share about life and existence that would be awesome! 😊🌸
feel free to text me🫶🏼 ur not alone, i feel the same rn
Hi we can be a good friends
I find it pretty relatable, maybe, I find both my parents and my job being very demanding that I lost many things, I just have online friends I guess other than my coworkers and my parents. Relationship-wise I feel like I have no time for myself then how would I have a time for someone else, yea and I would most likely hurt people in a relationship as the environment I'm in is very demanding, I might be demanding to them so yeah it feels endless and quite lonely. Hope y'all don't have to go thru such thing.
I get it having not much time for yourself doesn't leave room for anybody else, one thing that helps me is knowing it won't be forever 🌸
@orangeplum1338 I can relate to a small circle. Small but good.. but feel like something is missing? I can relate to those feelings. I ponder existence a lot. I kinda wish I didn't and I was more mindful. Working on it. 🙂
Heysteph, do you have any spiritual/cultural beliefs? I feel like that anchors me, I have Fibromyalgia which makes me fatigued and feeling like my bodies not quite right thats a struggle, brings me down mindfullness will help with that and CBT, its the case of practicing them regularly...maybe we can slowly start together and hold eachother accountable, its ok if not lol 😊
@orangePlum1338 hey, I'm also going through similar situations, I'd love to connect and share abiut life🙂
Hey, how are you going?
@orangePlum1338
I've been holding up quite well, trying to look at the positives of things that happen in life
Hello,
I feel you. Feel free to text me!
Howdy, thanks for reaching out 😊 how are you going?
I just got out of a long-term stay not too long ago and from being in there for so long I changed so much. I did not get to pick what I did. so now I have no clue who I am. nothing I did before sounds like fun or anything I did in there. all I know is that I have no personality anymore. I can't find any interest or something as simple as a favorite food. all I want to know is who I am and what I like. but I don't and that drives me crazy. how do I figure it out, I don't know if I give it time or if I force it but I need to know soon. I can only handle this for so long before I brake.
How are things going for you now?
@orangePlum1338 mentally i am doing beater but i stell don't know how i am anymore
You are a wonderful person and you have worth and you are loved greatly. Believe and it will rise up in your heart. Though I don't know you, I love you and there is nothing you can do about it.
You are a precious person with a wonderful personality. Your emotions are going awired because you are focusing so much in the past.
Learn from the past, remember our ancestors, but the toxic relationships we have to let them go.
God loves you, He created you.
Be bless. Grieve, it's okay. But don't stay in grief.
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@orangePlum1338 I want to share more about my life and existence my dad makes me feel worse he uspets me he makes me feel bad my anixety depression bothers me ptsd and sexual assault from a stranger
I am so sorry what you have been through, I can't imagine how you feel 😔🌸
@orangePlum1338 thank you I also have friendship issues
I am here if you ever want to talk
Hi I would enjoy talking to you . I
@energeticSquare9210 any time
Sure holler. I'm in training alot. But I find time . Nice of you to reach out
I'm new to this but would like to hear your story or you could hear mine.
@orangePlum1338 I think I can relate tho I am much younger and am not working. not that am really busy with my studies buh I don't really have friends. I just broke up with my bf and I just started feeling hurt. And the fact that I have no one to share what I am going through right now is really painful 😖
I am here, sorry to hear that... it is painful breaking ties with a close friend, studies are also stressful, hang in there ok with time things do get better 😊
Feel free to text me for a light hearted and irreverent perspective on life and love.