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Obsessive behaviors

User Profile: ivoryTurtle4542
ivoryTurtle4542 February 19th

I have an issue where I make a friend, they are really cool and we get along great, but I am like obsessive and I just text them a lot and think about them and does anyone have a advice how to not annoy people bc it gives anxiety that my friends will leave me even if they are great and don’t mind my anxiety disagrees 

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User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat February 19th

@ivoryTurtle4542

Hey Hi Turtle… 😊💕

You're sweetttt.....(⁠=⁠^⁠・⁠ェ⁠・⁠^⁠=⁠)......😊💞

I really feel this. When u finally meet someone u click with, of course ur heart gets excited.

You’re not obsessive 💗

you’re just someone who feels deeply and doesn’t want to lose something that feels good. 🤍 i love that abt u, i truly means it 💖.........(⁠o⁠´⁠・⁠_⁠・⁠)⁠っ


That anxiety whispering they’re going to leave can be so loud, even when there’s no real sign of it. It makes you reach out more, not because you’re annoying  but because you’re trying to feel safe. That makes sense. Truly. 💓


Maybe when you notice the urge to text again, just pause and remind yourself: If they care about me, a little space won’t change that. The right friends don’t disappear because you had a moment of worry. 🌸

You deserve friendships where you feel secure, not constantly afraid. And the fact that you’re even worried about annoying them shows how thoughtful you are 😊💕.

You’re not too much. You just want to be valued. And that’s such a human thing. 🌷

Sending lots of love and care ur way 💓 

Tight n warm hugs 🤗 

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User Profile: ivoryTurtle4542
ivoryTurtle4542 OP April 20th

@AiluraTheCat tysm ❤️❤️ this made me tear up in the best way

 this is especially helpful for me since I was having a bad day and came here for support. Again tysm

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User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat April 21st

@ivoryTurtle4542

Hey *Hands u tissue* I'm sorry to hear you had a bad day !! Hope things be soon ease up for u ❤️ I'm glad if i could able to make u ny better 😊!! You deserve to be happy n free! 

*Hugs* 

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User Profile: brightDay9737
brightDay9737 February 21st

It's because u like them...it's not ur fault 😊

User Profile: SunshineJazz
SunshineJazz February 24th

If someone meets my energy, I get like that too! But I'm super communicative and I love being spammed and bothered! Be my friend haha 🤭

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User Profile: ivoryTurtle4542
ivoryTurtle4542 OP April 20th

@SunshineJazz ughhh yesss What I hope for lol

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