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Romanian expat return home

User Profile: CherishedDreamer
CherishedDreamer May 21st, 2025

I am here 27F wanting to seek friendships or discuss with people in similar situation.

I spent nearly a decade abroad studying and working in IT and returned home back to my country. Apart from family and a church girl I don't know anyone.

I lost contact with my old school friends. Years ago in Summer my former best friend didn't seem happy to keep in touch (I was not a cool kid and she wanted to be cooler), and the people I knew are anyways spread all over the country or world with their own lives, some even have families now.

I am starting from scratch, I am working on something remotely since I came back in October last year and my God, is it lonely!

Dating has not been good either. I been chronically single, but I feel main thing I am missing is social activity.. if anything, sober socialising or even just virtual friendship. Anyone in similar predicament?

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User Profile: TheEmptyMan
TheEmptyMan May 21st, 2025

@CherishedDreamer 21 m here,i couldn't help but to respond to your post since i guess i can get you somewhat in not having any social activity and being alone. my situation is a bit different since i am a romanian living in italy and i had my separations when i was little,anyway if you are bored or you want to chat i am here.

good day to you.

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User Profile: CherishedDreamer
CherishedDreamer OP May 22nd, 2025

@TheEmptyMan @tomorrowandtonight hello you 2, I can't find way to chat with you on 7cups other than responding to this thread. If you want to chat I have gram handle @crinuldinvale

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User Profile: TheEmptyMan
TheEmptyMan May 22nd, 2025

@CherishedDreamer i should have sent the request i am valentinn_2004,tough i have to say i'm really not that good at socialising.

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CherishedDreamer OP May 22nd, 2025

@TheEmptyMan otherwise I will see if I can become a listener

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User Profile: tomorrowandtonight
tomorrowandtonight May 21st, 2025

@CherishedDreamer 20f Hello!! I am from Romania too. I am in the same situation; Is so hard to feel alone, having no one. If you want to talk reach me out. 

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User Profile: CherishedDreamer
CherishedDreamer OP May 22nd, 2025

@tomorrowandtonight hello you 2, I can't find way to chat with you on 7cups other than responding to this thread. If you want to chat I have gram handle @crinuldinvale

User Profile: CherishedDreamer
CherishedDreamer OP May 22nd, 2025

@tomorrowandtonight otherwise I will see if I can become a listener

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User Profile: honestLake2911
honestLake2911 June 6th, 2025

I was intrigued by the “cool kid” things. How to be cooler than we already are. When your former best friend said it like that, means its over. But the one thing I am sure is people change. I’m not talking about others, but me myself. I feel like I have changed. To be a different person or actually to be the person I was before, thats something I couldnt find the reasons yet.