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I'm at summer camp right now and I genuinely can't seem to feel like I belong. Everyone here has made friend groups and stuff and I try to be a part of them but | just end up getting excluded. I think it's because I can't talk normally in a conversation like | can't hold a conversation to save my life and it's so frustrating. Some of them are also like "dating" each other and I feel like every other guy here has been called attractive by at least one girl but no one's said anything about me idk what's wrong with me.

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User Profile: pinkCherry1616
pinkCherry1616 July 14th

I try to imagine your frustration. I remember that I was not a conversation queen as a teenager and yung women. Heh… not fun in environments that are about fun. From where I am I think just need a little more time. Bitting yourself up for not being there yet might only slow it down.

A small hints:

What if you stop looking for the groups that look like fun and start looking at individuals that seem quieter on their own? Just noticing if anything else is to much.

What if in a conversation you focused on someone else? Not on what to say to look cool yourself but to notice something about someone, get curious about something and ask them? People love attention and you might be good at this.

There is nothing wrong with you you are feeling unsecure because you want a friendship or attention and I am really sorry to hear that what are you going through

You know I was also like this when I was transferred in my 10th grade to a new school and you know I never made a friend there

There was two more students one of them is really a real real introvert and another one has too many friendship in his area but not in school so we usually seat back in class

We are not friends but we are showing like we are group you know in the end of 12th grade teachers and some other student says like they are best friends and a group which is not changed in 3 years

But you know we don't even know about each other we rarely talk but shown like we are group

And you know there is also a student who is great in study and sorts but he also talk less and do his work alone most students including me found him cool

So i think you can be by yourself like him

I don't really know if it help

Rooting for ya hope you feel better and find a friend circle

You can share about it here i am listening 👂

Take care @independentLychee6662

Don't talk about yourself like that. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. You are a beautiful and pure person; you just need to trust yourself more.

And yes, maybe you don't participate in groups or go out much because you need something better for yourself. For example, try to look at the weaknesses in your personality and work on improving them. Do things that you love and make you happy.

And if you ever need someone to talk to, I am always here to support you, remind you that you are not alone, and that you are capable of making yourself happy.

Because the true source of support for a person is God first, and then themselves. ❤️

User Profile: HelenListens
HelenListens July 26th

First nothing is wrong with you and being getting excluded is not bad, is better than them pretending right

User Profile: HelenListens
HelenListens July 26th

First nothing is wrong with you and being getting excluded is not bad, is better than them pretending right