Venting
Starting to really get aggravated with a friend of mine, I warn him a lot and it has become that I know I am over extending with him. I recently put boundaries up with, because he has been neglecting my emotions. However, I started to notice that he would purposely ignore everyone in my group chat I* had made, but be severely effected when i would say or do anything. I don't know if it's because he has feelings for me or what. My fiancé thinks he does, but i am not sure. I need opinions and advice on how to go about this.
@PhoenixButterfly97 oh that sounds really frustrating for you. it's not cool when people don't respect boundaries :(
would you consider giving another try at communicating with him maybe in person if possible? about why you need to create a boundary and how his actions aren't appropriate or comfy for you and your fiance.. like I can imagine your fiance not being ok with someone trying to cross your boundaries
if still doesn't work out with communication, you might need to consider breaking off ties with him or grow some more distance 😅 what do you think?
In person wont work because he is an online friend, so communication kinda has to be online. An Yeah I can understand too, which is why I needed the advice/ opinions because I didn't know what to do. An yeah it's really rude because other people in the groupchat will give him advice/tips/opinions an he will disregard it and only listen to me.
@PhoenixButterfly97 oh that seems even harder ;( did your other friends suggest any ideas to deal with it?
They have tried to approach said friend about it, to be immediately be ignored. So it was pointless, and now they don't wanna deal with it either
