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User Profile: AngelHS
AngelHS June 10th

Long story short, had a best friend for 20years. Which then for the last 7 of them, turned extremely toxic and manipulative. She is now and ex friend but now I find it almost impossible to trust 'friends'.

Thought I'd found one though. Until tonight when I discovered secret, albeit innocent enough emails between her and my partner. The content was minor but the secret, discreet part of it has broken me. I'm not angry or upset. I just feel numb and betrayed. She told me over and over she wouldn't do anything to make me not trust her, then this. I feel like this is a massive kick from them both.

I'm just done with friends.

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User Profile: AsherTree
AsherTree June 10th

@AngelHS

I'm sorry your having trouble finding good friends.. it's rough, maybe one day you can try again someday and find better people. 

I've found that there is some good people on this website. 

Good luck🌟

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User Profile: AngelHS
AngelHS OP June 13th

Honestly after this last few days I give up with everyone. Besides my mum and my two daughters, I don't have any trust in anyone. Not even my partner after tonight.

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User Profile: ScrabbleBrain
ScrabbleBrain June 10th

Anyone let alone friends breaking your trust is unacceptable. I hope in the future you'll be able to take the good from it, if any, and leave the bad behind.

I'm not sure many people know the true meaning of friendship anymore. They are the people you're supposed to be able to let your guard down with and have faith in completely.

Later on when/if you're ready, just take it really slowly and take care of yourself :)

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User Profile: AngelHS
AngelHS OP June 11th

Exactly. I have a friend I have known my whole life, well, from me being 4months old when she was born. She is my ride or die. I sent her a message that night telling her how much I appreciate her. But we don't see each other too often. But since my ex friend, I struggle trusting friends now, and this has just solidified it more. Not worth the betrayal these days

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