Why do I feel like I’m the only one how care for my friend
I was sick like really sick and my best friend only reach out to me asking how I was one time after that she just continue partying with their other friends. I don’t ask to be your whole world, I just ask you for care I little bit, am I wrong?
@colorfulLove6609
NO, you are not wrong.
When we are sick or anything where we need support ... IF someone checks in even once, sometimes we downplay and say something like " I will be OK" even if we are not. Do we hope they hear tone in our voice or actions? Do we expect them to see clues that we would appreciate or need more support?
I found my voice to ask if they could spend more time or ask for things we need when sick not just think they will know. We then get upset when they do other things or assume we are OK because that is what we said.