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Why is making friends so hard?

User Profile: calmShade3062
calmShade3062 July 6th

I just lost my best friend to some guy..

Anyways im struggling to make connections to find new friends.

Its been tough. Ive tried going out and socialize. I tried just doing my hobbies and connect. But no real connection has been made.

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 July 6th

@calmShade3062

                Sometimes we just need to reach out and try we cannot force connection but the more people we engage with the odds go up significantly. 

I have found many of my friends were not the people I might have chosen if I had all the people I met in a room.   I feel it is harder to make friends when we are older because we do not always open up or give others a chance because maybe we found some people have let us down... 

I was in a group and one person I had an instant dislike but as got to know them more we became great friends... The people I thought were worth making friendships proved me wrong.