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What Do You Strive to be?

User Profile: BusyBird
BusyBird March 15th

What kind of person do you want to become?


I was just thinking about the types of people in the world that I wish we had more of. I'm sure we all notice a distinct lack of such traits in those around us. Perhaps we want to contribute to filling in that gap.


For me? I have historically felt looked down on by other women. Especially older women. As I age, I hope to become more of a girl's girl. Though, I would support a boy in a heartbeat, too.


I want to use my growing wisdom to uplift other women, not put them down. I don't want to be bitter and jealous like some have been to me.


I recall meeting a nice older woman once in college. She seems like a good example of how I want to behave as I mature. Friendly, guiding, maybe a little protective... I think I would enjoy being that for others.


I care about both men and women, but in this case, I just want to become the supportive feminine figure I always needed, and I want to give that to everyone else.


So, what gap might you want to fill? And, if you are comfortable answering, why do you want that role? 😊

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 March 15th

@BusyBird

I strive to be kind.

I strive to be honest.

Non judgemental.

Real.

I strive to uplift other women 💚🤗

I don't do rivalry or jealousy 🩷🤗

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User Profile: BusyBird
BusyBird OP March 16th

@Amanda84 These are all amazing things to strive for! 😁🩷

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 March 16th

@BusyBird

Thank you kindly 🥰 

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User Profile: freshRainbows4732
freshRainbows4732 March 18th

@BusyBird

Just someone who lifts others up 🤍 (and hopefully doesn’t mess it up 😉)

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User Profile: BusyBird
BusyBird OP March 18th

@freshRainbows4732 Reletable 😆 But I believe you are capable of it! And don't fret if mistakes are made. Everyone does it. 😊 We just learn from them.

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User Profile: freshRainbows4732
freshRainbows4732 March 18th

That’s really kind, thank you 🤍

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow March 22nd

I strive to be a safe person.

Kind.

Gentle.

Non-judgemental.

And overall, a decent human who hasn't lost his humanity.

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User Profile: BusyBird
BusyBird OP March 24th

@fossilfellow That is perfect. And honestly? I hope to be the same.

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fossilfellow March 24th

@BusyBird 💖💖

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User Profile: trueconfidant123
trueconfidant123 March 23rd

@BusyBird

I strive to be confident in who I am and what I'm building myself to be

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BusyBird OP March 24th

@trueconfidant123 I believe in you. 😌

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trueconfidant123 March 24th

@BusyBird thank you ❤️

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User Profile: TrinityBringer
TrinityBringer March 24th

@BusyBird I want to be the stillness within the storm, or after/before the storm (strange how much silence surrounds a storm isn't it?), someone so at peace and confident in herself that I inspires and uplifts others to find their own confidence and peace just by being myself. When all the world is chaos I want to be the one people can look at and say 'this person made the way for us, showed us the way through the storm' 

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User Profile: BusyBird
BusyBird OP March 26th

@TrinityBringer My goodness. That's a beautiful thing to want, and a beautiful way to say it! Believe me, you're already inspiring. 😊

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