I'm looking for long-term support .
I have some problems with myself , and I want to change it . The biggest problem is that I repressing my feelings constantly . And that cause me severe anxiety . I need somebody to talk . (Possibly a woman , 'cus I can't open up to a man)
@Szenfi
I know you'd prefer to chat with a woman, but don't rule out some of us old guys. We've been around the block more than a few times and can probably relate to what you're feeling.
A lack of confidence can be crippling in more ways than one, and a lot of that comes from subconsciously comparing yourself to the people around you. You see them as better, better looking, smarter, happier, full of that confidence you lack, and pretty much have a better life. I felt the same way for a LONG time. Then I slowly started to realize that very few people are "that person" you see. Everybody has some kind of burden, some kind of sensitivity and some degree of fear. And believe it or not, there are people who see YOU as "that person" too.
Eventually, you'll learn to be you and stop caring what other people think. Do what you think is right, all the time, and let yourself be happy. Stop comparing your life to Biff's and Brad's and that other guy with the straight A's and perfect girlfriend. You are YOU, and the only YOU you'll ever be. You have value, you matter, and everything else is just noise.
I wish I realized that when I was in school - but it wasn't until I got older and stopped trying to hide. I found much more happiness in life when I just let me be me, and decided that was quite good enough.
@DadFrustrated Thank you for your words :) . I really want to be me , but I don't know why , I'm constantly copying everybody . For example , when i saw an anime yesterday , and a character really got my attention , I begin to copy his body language .
@Szenfi hey XD female here as per your requirement. Id like to hear you out and be there for you if you need someone to talk to and share your problems with.
