Is bothering someone you love disregarding?

Let's talk in context of brotherhood today. We've got brothers/sisters or friends we love bothering to. It seems kinda funny and cute on the same time. We get to see their unconditional attention towards us. Their funny faces are everything it seem we want to see at the moment. We feel like doing that over and over again since we like the idea of bothering them.

BUT, the main question is, do they like being bothered?

The answer might differ according to the way we attempt to bother them. If we're teasing them about someone they like, it might be sweet but if we're teasing them about they liking the one they dislike, it maybe irritating and might end up hating them.

When it comes to being physical, it may differ upon how close we're to them and if they're someone who prefer to be touched or not. If its about a prank, they might just laugh and leave or even blast at us. They being upset with us is also common. Wanting to get back to us might get them develop the sense of revenge.

So is it good or bad to bother someone?

Let's say that I'm a good friend of yours and I keep on pulling your hair or pinching you, would you feel irritated but also cute at the same time or will you feel hatred towards me? Will you love the attention that i'm giving you or wish for me to never touch you ever again?

Let's simply say that it depends upon the personality we're dealing to and the way we bother them. It also depends upon their mood.

TLTR; Whenever we bother someone, its key important that we check up on their mood before hand. Bothering someone in a way they like can help build strong connections. However, bothering someone too often in a way they dislike might result in serious problem. Secret hating might develop as well.

Especial thanks to @MiloBoyCow for being the inspiration to create this thread!