ANNOYED VENTING

May be long but I need to vent!

A yr ago my mother and I watched my sister die unexpectedly and pretty graphic. Since then I've been walking on eggshells and letting her get away with things so I won't upset her.

Yesterday she was making a ton of noise around 5-6 am n she does this ALL THE TIME! She's hammering stuff, banging pots and pans (don't understand what she's doing because I always wash dishes and clean the kitchen at night. And when I get up there's no food made so I don't understand the noise). She SLAMS cabinets and the microwave over and over like she has an attitude. But when I get up to see whats wrong she's perfectly fine, just loud.

So yesterday morning I asked her can she be more quiet for the 776 time. When she's sleep I don't disturb her and she got upset. I don't think I'm being unreasonable. I'm not laying around until 12pm and expecting her to be quiet. Just stop the construction work at 5am!

Since then she's been *** and not speaking to me. BUT she's been quiet. Not a sound for 24hrs and I've barely seen her. So she can be petty and have an attitude for 24hr and be completely quiet but not at 5-6am when I'm asking her to be considerate? Now I'm ANNOYED.

She's ungrateful. She retired last yr and without my sister she can't handle the bills on her own. So I'm here helping her. She even owes me $200. If I leave I can't afford to pay all my bills AND help with hers, along with random money she asks for during the month. And I'm not going to leave her hanging so she'll still end up moving in with me or I'll be back here.

I ask for ONE thing and she acts like I did something to her. Whole attitude and silent treatment. But she'll be talking to me again when she needs money 😒

Am I crazy? Honestly,I don't see where I'm wrong...