16 Personalities - The Mediator Thread
Has Anyone here taken the 16 personalities quiz and found out your a Mediator. The Mediator is a rare personality type that is only about 2% of the current population. Crazy, Right?! These are my results from the quiz. I'm extremely introverted, Intuitive, and Make decisions from feelings more than logic.
I'm hoping to find some other Mediators out there, because I'm struggling with this personality! There are sooooo many great thing about this personality. So many thing I would never change about it, because I truly love being in my head, and how intuitive I am, but this world is not built for introverts. So social anxiety kicks my butt! I get in my own way all the time, with how much I AM in my head. I'm a perfectionist and feel like I'm failing in life all the time, when in reality, I'm not doing half bad, but I can't stop myself from feeling this way. I also feel alone.....and like no one understands me and how I feel and what I'm going through.....

That'll be me as well =)
@AriannaAngel16 I honestly don't really understand how the 16 personalities test works. I think it's really cool that only 2% of the current population has your personality type. I just took mine and I got ISFP-T. I don't think our personality types are the most compatible😭. But I'm sure you'll find people that will understand you. If you need someone to talk/vent to I'm here!
@jzheng2025 What do you mean?! I think our personality types are very much alike. We are both sensitive, imaginative, open minded, Creative, My personality type talks about being a dreamer and I like to be in my head. Which is SO true. When you read about your strengths and weaknesses, how true to yourself were they? Understanding people is a big part of me, and I've recognized over the years of being follower and leader that understanding people and being understood by others is one of my core values, along with trust and honesty.
I maybe late to the game here. I always hear about people staying true to their values, personal values, and family values, I really didn't understand what people meant, and how do people discover their values??? I think my issue was that I had those values, but my personality type makes it easier for me to understand other people more than I can understand myself......
Anyway, I'm on a path to self discovery, for me and for my family. And I'd love to understand you more and how your personality type spoke true to you?


@AriannaAngel16 i’m one too
@chocolatebunnyy Hi It's so great to meet another Mediator. I've been really struggling with this personality type. When I first took the test I was very excited and it felt good to understand a little about who I am and be able to put into words my strengths and weaknesses. Everything I read spoke true to who I am, was that the same for you?
I'm struggling now, because my daughter is very much a Mediator like us, and I'm now seeing all the struggles I had as a kid through her. She very much feels like she is alone, and feels like no one understands her, except me, of course. I'm so happy I've gone through all of this so that I can be there for her, and show her she is not alone. However she wants her peers to understand her......I'm just mom, lol. I got on this website in hopes of finding more people like us, so she can see she isn't alone. I'm hoping I can find more people in her age range that she can talk to as well.....maybe make a friend that she can talk to, relate to, that will understand what she is going through.
Hello fellow Mediator! :)
@DecaffeinatedContradiction I responded to @chololatebunny, but the same response to you. I'm very happy to meet a fellow Mediator. What about you, when reading about your strengths and weaknesses, how true to you where they?
@AriannaAngel16 Everything for the most part felt fairly accurate either to some previous version of myself or to myself currently. Did yours not resonate in some way?
@AriannaAngel16 hello. I am also INFP-T. Nice to meet another mediator 😊
@OakSerenity I responded to @chocolatebunny, if you'll read that, and the same response to you. When reading about your strengths and weakness, how true to you did you feel they were? I feel very much like people think I'm very naïve to the world we live in because of my optimistic and Idealistic personality. Do you have any experience of that?
I'm so happy to see so many mediators!!! After all we're only 2% of the population. =)
Thank you @AriannaAngel16 for bringing us together!
Yes i am also mediator