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User Profile: braveTown6700
braveTown6700 May 21st, 2025

I feel kinda embarrassed, I don’t know if I should be though. Basically I have started a new friendship with this one dude. We have been texting lots, and we have hung out a few times in groups and once last Saturday just the two of us. I sorta have a crush on him but my feelings are kinda complicated on the subject so I don’t know for sure. Anyway I am embarrassed because I sent him a full face snap today just to see if he would send one back. (we haven’t sent snaps since 2023) he left me on read and never sent one back. Now I feel real stupid and sorta embarrassed for sending it since I looked good in it so maybe he thought it was a weird snap (I didn’t show skin or anything)

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User Profile: jacek73
jacek73 May 21st, 2025

@braveTown6700

Hello 😊 I am sorry, I am an old-timer who is not very familiar with snaps. But I think some rules of relationships remain the same.

There are at least several options why he didn't respond. He might have forgotten. He might have thought his snap wouldn't be as good as yours. He might see the connection between you two in a different way than you do.

Do you think that asking him why hasn't he replied - in a polite and non-invasive but also straight way - could help?

I think one of the most beautiful things of living in a world of equality is the fact a woman may openly show her interest in a man. And it can be really flattering. So why he didn't respond is a mystery...

User Profile: Creamyyy
Creamyyy May 23rd, 2025

@braveTown6700 every man is different. That's all what i can say from my experience. I've made a bit of bold moves on some and they've judged and despised me. I've also been shy and that too has been disapproved. You just have to be true to yourself and accept the response and take it from there. I think the right person will appreciate whether you initiate something or whether you are coy.