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User Profile: Rosie31
Rosie31 October 21st, 2025

Been with a partner for 12 years his mum sadly passed from cancer the start of this year and since then everything went down hill how do you move forwards, why did he push me away like that

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User Profile: Creamyyy
Creamyyy October 21st, 2025

Hey im so sorry .. you didnt deserve being pushed away when you wanted to be by his side in his hour of grief... 12 years is a long time , i feel you.. but this is the thing with grief, when it takes over you, people dont always make the best decisions. Give him time and space to deal with his problems. Maybe he will come back when he gets himself a bit sorted out. Keep us posted. Sending strength your way ❤️

@Rosie31

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User Profile: Rosie31
Rosie31 OP October 21st, 2025

Thankyou ❤️ for your kind words I’m just full of anxiety and depression at the moment 😔

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User Profile: Creamyyy
Creamyyy October 21st, 2025

Hey im so sorry .. you didnt deserve being pushed away when you wanted to be by his side in his hour of grief... 12 years is a long time , i feel you.. but this is the thing with grief, when it takes over you, people dont always make the best decisions. Give him time and space to deal with his problems. Maybe he will come back when he gets himself a bit sorted out. Keep us posted. Sending strength your way ❤️

@Rosie31

User Profile: BeingHuman92
BeingHuman92 October 21st, 2025

I lost my grandmother in January of 2025, and think i fell into a depression without realizing it. Became a shell of myself, and thru it i think i accelerated the end of my 8 year relationship with my college girlfriend, and who i thought was going to be my wife and mother of my kids. Im feeling very lost and alone, but if your partner is anything like me - just know they don’t feel good about you being gone, and they probably wish they knew the right words to say, or things to do to make everything all better and how things used to be.