Confusedddddd
I’ve been fwb with this guy for about 4 months and honestly we don’t know each other but when we hang out it I feel comfortable with him like I’ve known him for a long time (best friend vibe) and I can tell him everything about life, work, etc. I feel like he feels that way too cause he does the same.
I ALWAYS ask to hang out and he is always down unless he already had plans and MOST of the time we hang it’s like Netflix and chill at his place but not straight to the point we would literally watch like 2-3 movies, episodes or w.e
When I’m there over weekends sometimes he asks if I want to crash there and then go home in the morning or whenever I’m ready. Most of the time I do other times I’m like nahh I got responsibilities tomorrow.
I asked him last month what we were he said friendsss….. he asked why do you feel more I said idk what I feel and I asked it back he said noOoo…imma be transparent with you, I ain’t trying to lead you on or hurt you and if you’re ever uncomfortable let me know. I said okay thanks.
We also talked about if we are seeing other people to let each other know because we want our health to be safe. I asked twice if he was seeing or talking to others he said no. Recently he didn’t realized I was still talking to this one guy that he knew about from day 1 and asked if I had sex with him yet I said no I’m not comfortable with that person and he said okay then quickly changed the topic.
We text EVERYDAY and sometimes before I come over he restocks his mini fridge with coconut water and vitamin water for me which I think is really sweet.
I know when a guy says he isn’t interested to believe him and that’s how my mentality he but mannnnn he is confusing AF!
@emotionalSkies3636
Hello! Thank you for sharing your story!
That
sounds a little confusing. He is saying straight out no, but it seems
like he takes care of you physically and mentally. The thoughtfulness of
having the fridge restored with the things you like is such a sweet touch
as well.
I would suggest that maybe you think about what you want
from this relationship in the future. Are you okay with being
fwb, would you like more, or would you like to stop it and focus on another relationship.
Luckily it seems that you are both comfortable with your situation, so once you both feel ready, I am sure you will have to get to have a productive talk about your expectations for the future.