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General Support / by emotionalSkies3636
Last post
 October 13th, 2022
...See more I’ve been fwb with this guy for about 4 months and honestly we don’t know each other but when we hang out it I feel comfortable with him like I’ve known him for a long time (best friend vibe) and I can tell him everything about life, work, etc. I feel like he feels that way too cause he does the same. I ALWAYS ask to hang out and he is always down unless he already had plans and MOST of the time we hang it’s like Netflix and chill at his place but not straight to the point we would literally watch like 2-3 movies, episodes or w.e When I’m there over weekends sometimes he asks if I want to crash there and then go home in the morning or whenever I’m ready. Most of the time I do other times I’m like nahh I got responsibilities tomorrow. I asked him last month what we were he said friendsss….. he asked why do you feel more I said idk what I feel and I asked it back he said noOoo…imma be transparent with you, I ain’t trying to lead you on or hurt you and if you’re ever uncomfortable let me know. I said okay thanks. We also talked about if we are seeing other people to let each other know because we want our health to be safe. I asked twice if he was seeing or talking to others he said no. Recently he didn’t realized I was still talking to this one guy that he knew about from day 1 and asked if I had sex with him yet I said no I’m not comfortable with that person and he said okay then quickly changed the topic. We text EVERYDAY and sometimes before I come over he restocks his mini fridge with coconut water and vitamin water for me which I think is really sweet. I know when a guy says he isn’t interested to believe him and that’s how my mentality he but mannnnn he is confusing AF!
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FWB or Not?
Relationship Stress / by emotionalSkies3636
Last post
 October 28th, 2022
...See more I’ve been fwb with this guy for about 4 months and honestly we don’t know each other but when we hang out it I feel comfortable with him like I’ve known him for a long time (best friend vibe) and I can tell him everything about life, work, etc. I feel like he feels that way too cause he does the same. I ALWAYS ask to hang out and he is always down unless he already had plans and MOST of the time we hang it’s like Netflix and chill at his place but not straight to the point we would literally watch like 2-3 movies, episodes or w.e When I’m there over weekends sometimes he asks if I want to crash there and then go home in the morning or whenever I’m ready. Most of the time I do other times I’m like nahh I got responsibilities tomorrow. I asked him last month what we were he said friendsss….. he asked why do you feel more I said idk what I feel and I asked it back he said noOoo…imma be transparent with you, I ain’t trying to lead you on or hurt you and if you’re ever uncomfortable let me know. I said okay thanks. We also talked about if we are seeing other people to let each other know because we want our health to be safe. I asked twice if he was seeing or talking to others he said no. Recently he didn’t realized I was still talking to this one guy that he knew about from day 1 and asked if I had sex with him yet I said no I’m not comfortable with that person and he said okay then quickly changed the topic. We text EVERYDAY and sometimes before I come over he restocks his mini fridge with coconut water and vitamin water for me which I think is really sweet. I know when a guy says he isn’t interested to believe him and that’s how my mentality he but mannnnn he is confusing AF! Would love to hear your thoughts!
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FWB OR NOT?
Relationship Stress / by emotionalSkies3636
Last post
 October 17th, 2022
...See more I’ve been fwb with this guy for about 4 months and honestly we don’t know each other but when we hang out it I feel comfortable with him like I’ve known him for a long time (best friend vibe) and I can tell him everything about life, work, etc. I feel like he feels that way too cause he does the same. I ALWAYS ask to hang out and he is always down unless he already had plans and MOST of the time we hang it’s like Netflix and chill at his place but not straight to the point we would literally watch like 2-3 movies, episodes or w.e When I’m there over weekends sometimes he asks if I want to crash there and then go home in the morning or whenever I’m ready. Most of the time I do other times I’m like nahh I got responsibilities tomorrow. I asked him last month what we were he said friendsss….. he asked why do you feel more I said idk what I feel and I asked it back he said noOoo…imma be transparent with you, I ain’t trying to lead you on or hurt you and if you’re ever uncomfortable let me know. I said okay thanks. We also talked about if we are seeing other people to let each other know because we want our health to be safe. I asked twice if he was seeing or talking to others he said no. Recently he didn’t realized I was still talking to this one guy that he knew about from day 1 and asked if I had sex with him yet I said no I’m not comfortable with that person and he said okay then quickly changed the topic. We text EVERYDAY and sometimes before I come over he restocks his mini fridge with coconut water and vitamin water for me which I think is really sweet. I know when a guy says he isn’t interested to believe him and that’s how my mentality he but mannnnn he is confusing AF! Let me know your thoughts on this!
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What to do?
Relationship Stress / by emotionalSkies3636
Last post
 September 19th, 2022
...See more I have been seeing this guy I met online for about 3 months. And in this short span we have met some of our friends and family which was unplanned it just so happened. I can't tell if he is interested in me or just for sex. We do hang out outside the bedroom by going for dinners and concerts but we don't call it dates or anything. However, we do prefer to stay in because we are more of homebodies but we also want to save money. On Sunday we both opened up about our past relationship and discussed what worked and didn't. The good parts and the bad parts of them. We also said what we will avoid for our next relationship. We text almost everyday and when we do the convo doesn't really die off it keeps going. He doesn't make any moves when we are out and about but he lets me link arms and lay on his shoulder. He's super supportive with me about my work such as if I had a stressful day he would try to make me feel better as I do for him. sigh….I always have to be the one to ask him to hang out but most of the time he does say yes to hanging out I know his last relationship it moved fairly quick as they dated for 1.5 years and 6 months in was living together. Soooo I'm not sure if he is taking it slow because of that and because we both just got out of relationship in April. But we discussed that we both checked out of the relationship long before the breakup happened People told me to just ask him or tell him how I feel but I feel like it's wayyy too soon and I'm afraid of his answer.
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Interested or Not?
Relationship Stress / by emotionalSkies3636
Last post
 September 17th, 2022
...See more I have been seeing this guy I met online for about 3 months. And in this short span we have met some of our friends and family which was unplanned it just so happened. I can't tell if he is interested in me or just for sex. We do hang out outside the bedroom by going for dinners and concerts but we don't call it dates or anything. However, we do prefer to stay in because we are more of homebodies but we also want to save money. On Sunday we both opened up about our past relationship and discussed what worked and didn't. The good parts and the bad parts of them. We also said what we will avoid for our next relationship. We text almost everyday and when we do the convo doesn't really die off it keeps going. He doesn't make any moves when we are out and about but he lets me link arms and lay on his shoulder. He's super supportive with me about my work such as if I had a stressful day he would try to make me feel better as I do for him. I know his last relationship it moved fairly quick as they dated for 1.5 years and 6months in was living together. Soooo I’m not sure if he is taking it slow because of that and because we both just got out of relationship in April. But we discussed that we both checked out of the relationship long before the breakup happened People told me to just ask him or tell him how I feel but I feel like it’s wayyy too soon and I’m afraid of his answer
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