Crush stuff
So I like a girl, I mean, really like her and I don't like labels, so I'm not bi or gay or anything but yeah I like girls and boys so anyways.. so yeah she's my friend she's pretty cool, authentic, brave, cute and weird ***..? A little similar to me I suppose. Anyways my last relationship was toxic and rlly hurt me and tbh I've always had romantic insecurities, before I used to never confess or be able to flirt or be confident that someone liked me and on top of it it's so overwhelming just like sadness I can't hold it in without spiraling coz the feeling is too strong and I'm in half denial as well, u know the freaking out stage.. and idk I don't feel like she's too good for me, but I still feel underconfident and suddenly my crush- reading psychology skills hv gone blank (normally im the least oblivious when it comes to detecting if someone likes me ) so I hv no idea how she feels and plus I can't imagine confessing. And I'm not sure what is the exact main point of this story , but..yeah.. and normally I don't think abt her much but today she's on my mind wayy too much
@reservedVase8999
Hello 🥰
Nice to meet you.
Thanks for your honesty.
Crushes can be exciting, fun, but also nerve wracking because ultimately we are putting ourselves out their, to have the ability to be rejected and it's not easy.
It could help you to just enjoy spending time with her.
No pressure.
No intensity.
Giving you time to become less overwhelmed and then with time, how she feels might become clearer 💜💕
Aww thank u so much. Ur so true about crushes. I guess after the whole thing with my ex, one sided stuff just feels out of balance, especially since I've now cultivated balanced relationships nevertheless other area. But the irony is to find out if it's mutual u hv to put urself out there, which is quite risky and might tip the balance. But I'm sure I'll figure it out. Thank u for ur advice. Till now I was strung between minimizing contact and all coz i was freaking out but now I'll think about what u said. I hope u are doing well, and take care❤️
So you are LGBTQ?
Yup I guess soo. I still hv a bit of internal resistance and still don't prefer labels, but I'm learning more about myself, and doing my best to be an ally to others as well. Sorry for the late response