Depressed & confused and stressed
I'm gonna try to make this short and simple, my bf of 5 years watched porn behind my back(even though I told him I considered it cheating) for over a year. When I found out he lied to me for 2 years telling me things like "you aren't good enough" "those women are perfection" "it's all your fault and so on and so fourth.
We broke up because of that, then when we got back together instead of having it as a fresh start like intended he tries to get nudes from women online of which he sexted when we were apart.
Here I am almost a year later after catching him trying to get nudes, depressed and being angry at myself that I can't get over the past and all the hurt and pain he caused me. Wondering if I'll ever be enough for him or if I should just let him go. I feel ugly with myself and not good enough for him. I just don't know what to do. He hasnt done anything in the past year that I know of and he's treating me good I just want all the pain from the past to go away
@intelligentAvocado8214
Thank you so much fpr sharing, you will always remember the past but it is what you do with that past that matters the most. I believe that you as a person, have a lot to offer others including him. If you ever need a chat just click on my profile.
@intelligentAvocado8214 sorry to hear all this, hope it gets better for you
so sorry for what you are going thru. You have every right to be angry. whats bigger than what he did is the feeling of loosing trust.
Porn addiction can be a real problem and i hope he understands this. This is something many couples can move on from but open communication and trust is going to important. Only you can decide your path and what is right for you. I hope you move foward with confidence self worth. Your worth much more.
Hi, I guess he is in a habit in it ,and it wont go away soon,it may be porn addiction, From my experience of living with a partner with certain habits that put u off,its better to find ur own place and peace.your life is urs and u need to think about it.
If he is making u feel so low in self esteem ,it wont get better. Get the strength to understand what u want, listen to ur mind and not ur heart. The saying is True...let the loved one go,if he is urs he will fly back to you...
@intelligentAvocado8214
Please leave him it may be hard but you shouldn't feel bad about yourself for someone that is suppose to love you