Don't Trust
It hurts to see at the end how they say they will never hurt you and leave you, instantly take a step back when things are challenging. They leave 'to protect themselves' from the pain and you realise they never meant what they said all this time neither do they realise how much they broke you.
@Allyssa09
It can be incredibly painful to be left by someone you care about, especially when they say they'll never hurt you and then leave when things get challenging. It's important to remember that people's actions and words do not always align, and that not everyone is capable of being there for us in the way that we need. It's important to take care of yourself and to understand that you deserve someone who will be there for you through good times and bad. Give yourself time to heal, it takes time to process a loss, but with time you will be able to move on. Remember that it's not your fault, the other person's decision to leave is a reflection of their own issues and struggles, not a reflection of your worth as a person.
It's essential to remember that healing is possible and that you will get through this difficult time. You deserve to be with someone who will be there for you and treat you with the respect and love that you deserve ❤️
@Allyssa09
Consider casting trial unto people: try them as gold is tried in fire. Let their words and actions answer to the question "How much can I trust you?"
Learn to pull correct strings.
@Allyssa09
Unfortunately people will say things.. well meaning and they really feel that way at the time.
What is the answer ... no one knows ............i do not think it is avoiding love or no longer trusting
people want others to tell them "it is forever and nothing will change that ...." "i will never leave " "you complete me "
LIFE changes constantly...
people grow and change.....and with that feelings sometimes change as well...can anyone really hold them to things said in the throws of feelings.
Love is worth taking the risk ... of putting yourself out there .... and even if it does not last forever it makes you happy while enjoying the moment.