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Do you ever feel like you don't belong?

User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 October 16th, 2023

I've never had much chance of socialising. I've never had a family. I never really spoke to anyone for 18 years. I try so hard now to fit in, here at the care home and in 7 cups.There's are the only two places I get to see people speak to people. I make a lot of mistakes, when I talk to people. And I don't always understand the conversations. It makes me feel stupid, like I don't belong😞

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 OP October 16th, 2023

@Tinywhisper11 I use humour as a mask, a coping mechanism. 

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User Profile: mytwistedsoul
mytwistedsoul October 16th, 2023

@Tinywhisper11 I'm sorry you feel this way Tiny 😞 It's hard to feel like you don't belong. I think you do really good communicating here and it's ok to make mistakes. We learn through mistakes

You definitely not stupid. I do understand feeling that way during conversations. When when you're having one of those times you could ask some questions? Maybe that would help? ❤️

I can't say much about using humor as a mask - I used to do that too
 *offers safe hugs* 
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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 OP October 16th, 2023

@mytwistedsoul 🤗hugs you black ❤❤ I do ask questions most of the time. But sometimes I just go into my shell instead. I'm trying sooooo hard, and I will keep trying 🙂 it's just hard sometimes ❤❤ thank you for being kind to me ❤❤I love you

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User Profile: mytwistedsoul
mytwistedsoul October 16th, 2023

@Tinywhisper11 You are one of the most amazing people I know here Tiny. Your amount of try could move mountains ❤️ It's been wonderful to watch you grow here and I totally believe in you and that you'll keep trying. I believe that you will get to where you want to be ❤️

You definitely deserve kindness too Tiny - you're kind to so many others
Much love to you 😊❤️
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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 OP October 17th, 2023

@mytwistedsoul 🤗🤗 thanks sweetie ❤❤ will you help me get to where I'm going?? You will? Thanks😁 push me to the top of mount. Everest♿♿♿♿♿yaaaay😂😂😂❤❤

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User Profile: adventurousBranch3786
adventurousBranch3786 October 16th, 2023

@Tinywhisper11. I’ve been amazed how well you do socializing here despite not having spoke to anyone until 18 years old. I think that you are a fast learner and intelligent 💜. Your kindness is a good fit for many of us here at 7cups.

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Tinywhisper11 OP October 17th, 2023

@adventurousBranch3786 ❤❤ thanks branch ❤❤ gives you a giant tiny hug ❤❤

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User Profile: sunlover225
sunlover225 October 16th, 2023

@Tinywhisper11 I used to think I didn't belong but it's not up to me to take the blame for people who don't include me or anyone else. Those people have issues that have nothing to do with me. I do belong - I 100% belong.

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 OP October 17th, 2023

@sunlover225 ❤❤ yeah! Maybe your right ❤❤ thanks

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User Profile: 23helicopters
23helicopters October 16th, 2023

All the time!! I always feel like an alien. It seems like I just don't fit in no matter what. I've changed schools so many times and almost never felt understood. It's such a bad feeling. It's weird to feel lonely when you are surrounded by people. I need to find someone that will understand me. I'm so sorry you have to go through this too. These feelings can be very hard to deal with at times. I really hope things will get better for you ❤️❤️ sending lots of hugs ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 OP October 17th, 2023

@23helicopters hugs you back ❤❤❤ you know maybe being an alien 👽 is a good thing for both of us, we are unique 💖 but yep! I'm a world with billions of people, I question how can do many feel lonely! It's very sad 😢 huggs you again ❤

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User Profile: jesusredeemedme2425
jesusredeemedme2425 April 24th, 2024

@Tinywhisper11

Always... I feel too young, too old, too autistic, too "mental", too quiet... I always seem to feel that I don't belong... Even though I know I do. <3 And you do too!!!! Especially here. Are you even aware that you bring us together? We come together and love harder because of you <3