Farewell cups.
This is a farewell post that I will reply to and give updates on
Hi. My names “Noah”. A quick introduction about me is. I love coding, I’ve been on cups for about a year and a half (September 11, 2023) Over the course of this year and a half. I have met so many wonderful people. But I think it’s about time I take a self-care break for the time being. I love cups, and love the community that has come form it, and I also understand I’m basically nothing compared to the people that have made more positive impacts on cups. But I try my best to include everyone, as a room supporter it is my job to make sure that everyone is safe and included on cups.
Why am I taking a break?
Short answer: A lot. Longer answer is stress, unsupportive people, and just constant conflicts. I mean ask any member of cups. We have lost so many wonderful people on cups. (and I’m prob not gonna be one of them and never will be) Every single day, conflict after conflict. And since I’m RS, I try to help and calm down the conflict, but I just get screamed at and violated in it. I feel the effort I put into the community is not given back to me in any way or form.
Are you gone forever?
No, at least I think. I am planning to make this a 1-3 week self-care break. But that’s gonna prepend on what happens.
Tagging people that prob don’t care but I am tagging them cause I trust em (and they are some of my friends.)
@DarkerPlaces
@AdrienLovesYou
@teenmorgan16
@iloveyouxx
@Regan16
@justmeeva
@unassumingeyes
(If I missed anyone pls tell me)
*Mic drop* (Will be closing acc off expected on 2/24/23.)*
@regan18 messed up a tag :/
That’s okie friend.
thank you for taking me 💕 I understand why you are taking a break. I hope the break goes well for you 💕 I Will always been on tag away. *hugs* and take a cup for the road *passes cup*
thank you for your support in the rooms you are a joy and an amazing friend l. I will miss you lots.
until we meet again,
so much love
~ Regan
@Regan18
Thx for the cup and hug!! *hugs like child* I’ll miss you.
I'm sorry this is happening to you all. I know you don't know me but I've seen you around in the forums. You're right there's a lot of good people leaving - whether for breaks or for good - it just feels like you all shouldn't have to have to
I mean - I think it's great that you're taking a break to step back from the situation and stress here but it's sad that all this is going on in the first place. Isn't there any admins that can look into this? (I'm sure you've tried though) I hope someone realizes and fixes the problems that are going on and you all get your safe spaces back soon
@mytwistedsoul
Thsnks, you seem like an amazing person. I haven’t talked to mods, but from my pov nobody would care anyways
@CatHanderOutNoah Maybe the group support leaders? But maybe not? I'm guessing it's more a problem with members? Sorry I don't mean to pry or push into any issues.
Take care ok?
😮💨@mytwistedsoul
Tc, its fine
@catHanderOutNoah hey I know you didn’t tag me but I hope it’s ok that I reply. I’m so sorry cups had been getting this bad lately and you don’t deserve to get yelled at and I’ve seen the way you are in rooms and Noah I just want you too know you are an amazing person here and you will be missed, but I hope this break helps to you to heal as much as you can. I can’t wait for when you come back
pixie💕
@pixierobin
Thanks. ❤️
@CatHanderOutNoah
Update: I think I quit tommorrow. I might pop in rooms every so often just to say hi, but not staying. Love y’all. ❤️
*mic drop*
@CatHanderOutNoah
heyhey noah friend. first of all, thank you for everything you do. i see you’re trying, whether it’s helping others or dealing with your own issues. it’s difficult sometimes and i understand. i completely support the idea of a break, they’re just needed sometimes and there’s nothing wrong with that. you may not realise it but to me, you *are* an amazing friend, an amazing person, and i really care about you. i hope your self-care break goes okay, and if you need me, i’m always a tag away. i’ll miss you but if it’s good for you, then by all means do what’s best for you. *sends you a million hugs* ❤️
-an eva who cares
Noah, first off, thank you for tagging me. Secondly, I’m really gonna miss you. It was comforting, in a way, having you around. You said it was just a break- I’ll be glad to see you back on. But I’m also glad you’re focusing on your own self, you know? I don’t know what to say- I don’t want to say a goodbye msg, and I don’t want to reveal too much from our chats, so I’ll say I hope it works out, all of it. Thank you for letting me have a peak into the world of Noah ❤️ I’ll wait for your return, and I hope it will be a happy one <3
@CatHanderOutNoah
Noah we will miss you a lot . But sometimes breaks are important to grow . I see so many people going on break nowadays and I understand why . I wish you luck and hope with time your mental health situation get better . Stress is hard to deal with especially when a lot of things are going around .
But I will love to see you back after a bit of break with new positive energy. Hope you conquer whatever you are aiming for with this break. Best wishes my friend
Love you always *hugs if okay* ☺💗
Twinkle
@CatHanderOutNoah
I hope you’ll take good care of yourself, Noah. 💖