Feeling strange and empty. Need some support.
I not feeling well physically and mentally. Lately I am feeling a bit lonley and empty. Physically I am having fever and not feeling well lately. I sometimes feel lonley even when at home. My family is living in the house but I still feel not well sometimes. everyday I just feel so lonley and tired to go to college another day or do something else, I just feel like going to sleep and when I wake up it's already a new day with same anxious thoughts, with new challenges to face, with feeling of lonliness again and not enough energy to be happy and socialize with people, somedays I feel okay to be with people but somedays I just can't be even with my friends and for somedays I mean 4 out of 6 days in a week. I am not feeling well today I just want to sleep not woken up tired again to go to college Tommorow. I sometimes feels a bit lonley to not have much friends offline or maybe I just don't make friends and I let them go.(I don't know is this my fault or I am doing something wrong or not ) I feel lonley to see people in college having friends and partners with them. I want someone to be my side too. I don't know is this feelings are because I am not well today or just some internal feelings of me which I didn't let out but now feeling like to share because I am not doing well. I do feel lonely and not enough most of the time, I feels lonley and want someone to be with me but I don't know how to have one. I sometimes talk to listeners here but I don't want to bother them everyday and message them caise sometimes I don't have topic. But.... This is what I am going through. Thankyou for reading this.
@exuberantTalker9747 😞 I'm sorry your struggling so much sweetie ❤ have you by any chance talked to a doctor about all this?? I think it might be worth mentioning, and they will be able to beat advice you ❤ the mind is a strange thing to understand. Perhaps you need to take a little personal time, a break from college or any stresses, and just do things you like for a couple of days, rest lots, perhaps your body needs to take a bit more sleep than normal. Don't be afraid to reach out here ❤ we are all here for you ❤❤ gives you a giant tiny hug ❤
Thankyou tiny ❤️ I am taking medicine for fever and I will go to doctor today also. I didn't think to talk about this to doctor, maybe I will talk to him today. He is not mental doctor I was just wondering is this going to help ?? I am trying to helps myself with giving myself time to take off from college as it's raining but at home I have to do some works... It is easy at daytime but become hard at night when I can't sleep and can't even talk to anyone cause everyone around are asleep. But....
Thankyou for being here ❤️❤️ hugs you too 🤗
Hey Tiny. My situation is similar. I'm lonely during the day but not alone. I have my favorest pup with me. He helps greatly. My lovely is an email or phone call away but she works and deals with what that entails. I have an initial visit with a new psychiatrist on the 21st. I know I can wait. It's the therapeutic aspect of talk therapy I miss Without the ability to drive I would have to hitch with my lovely. Don’t wanna This though is a dream. Even know my arms and legs feel a little lighter. This here is hope. The prospects are so bright I so so much wanna be here. Safe, secure, a giving shoulder. This really, truly helps. Long, rambling, liberating. I hope this is okay to post this. Sorry if I messed up again. I want to harm noone. Guilt feels strong today. Should I post this I just dunno I just can't decide i need to relax and just let it happen Danny
I'm sorry exuberant I didn't mean to hijack your post without offering you a quackin big ole duck hug 🤗
Hugs you too 🤗
@exuberantTalker9747
That hug means more than you know 🤗 It gave me a peaceful easy feelin to quote a fellow feathered group
I’m sorry to hear how you are feeling Talker. Believe me I know how that feels and it’s awful waking up everyday with that same feeling. I talked to my doctor and started Zoloft and thankfully it’s been helping. I still struggle sometimes but the meds help along with the therapy I started. I also do online support groups to talk with people who get it and that helps with the loneliness. I really hope it gets better for you because feeling this way sucks! I was also starting to fall behind in classes and skipping work. Hope things get better ❤️❤️
@exuberantTalker9747
It's overwhelming to feel lonely a lot of the time. It feels like we are isolated from the rest of the world, keeping all our emotions to ourselves. While we do want to find someone we can confide in, we lack the energy or the courage to socialize.
You can try to sit down and really think about what you want and what led you to feel trapped in loneliness. Do you want to start a new friendship? Or do you want to have some time with yourself? The balance between these two is worth exploring because they can help you find a way out of this current state of confusion and illness.
Also, finding something that you're excited to do could supply you with more energy! You can feel very demotivated when there's nothing you look forward to in life. Take your time to find something that you're interested in :) We've all been through phases like this 💜
Take care and hope you can feel better soon!
