Feel sad & numb after surgical abortion
I've been feeling very emotional like I'll cry anytime although I don't feel guilty of my choice. I had a surgical abortion (7w) on 14th July.. my partner was there with me during procedure and now he's back home 2000km away.. but also he doesn't understand why I'm sad or crying so I feel very lonely (it was a contraceptive failure, I was on saheli, had taken ipill within 4hrs, also I've pcos but still it happened somehow) there's no friends nearby whom I could maybe hug and I feel so lost ð¥²
I hear u. I don't understand the exact specifics of ur situation, but it sounds like a lot. If u want someone to listen, I can listen. If u don't know what to do next, why not create a warm safe space at ur home? U can make it cozy with ur fave snacks, some comforting shows and let urself cry as loudly as u want. For a few days, keep taking care of urself, and delegate all other priorities if possible..the fact that u don't feel guilty itself is a step towards healing. Remember, this is quite a change. Most ppl would feel this way. Pls take care and keep posted
