Finding my people and support
People of toxic families, traumatizing families what not, howd yall leave. Especailly if yall were isolated? I keep getting betrayed and i do not want to waste my life away for someone who is cruel when angry all i did was cry and have a mental break before it escalated cus of yellin. Or boundaries. How can i uphold boundaries when i keep getting hurt or i might get me in a tuff situation and all of a sudden no sorries, no empathy, no nothin just insults. 🫠i want to leave so bad. I know there are people out there that will help.
Im stuck in a paradox, i trust and it gets bad but cant stop what do i so cus i keep getting hurt and keep hurting too
I keep bein insulted, but then i remember as she used to be and keep trying maybe thats the problem
But how do you leave when you are still grieving what happened? *** it up sounds mean. Expressing it might not, but i dont feel safe to. The gate is still open but it hurts. Im not sure.
I started by becoming independent first. When I became self-sustaining, I gain confidence and control over my path instead of relying on others. That foundation helps prevent bigger challenges down the road.
I understand what your going through but sometimes being in the middle of it doesn’t help either unfortunately you need to focus on yourself and not worry about toxic family stuff it’s the only way you can get yourself better
