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User Profile: midnightlily00
midnightlily00 June 17th
Hi, I think this is my first and probably my last post lol. I’m leaving Cups soon. I don’t know when I’ll be back, or if I’ll even come back.

I can’t appreciate this community enough. It held me through some really difficult times in my life, and I’m so grateful for it. I never thought I’d be leaving, but yeah…recently, this place that once felt like home has started to feel unfamiliar and strange, I don’t know if it’s because all my close friends are gone, or because of how invisible I feel in group chats, whatever it is, it hurts. And I already deal with that enough in my life

So to my few true friends who are still here, I really appreciate having you in my life, You’re amazing and Ily, I care about you, and I’ll always be rooting for you even if I’m not around.Thank you for being there for me and helping me It means more than I can explain in words.I hope life treats you with the gentleness and kindness you deserve.

Goodbye 🤍

~Lily.
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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 June 17th

@midnightlily00

Lily,

I'm so sorry that you haven't felt seen in group chats 🩷

Whatever you decide, I genuinely wish you all the best 💙

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User Profile: Mahd12
Mahd12 June 24th

@midnightlily00im sorry i didnt see this sooner
im going to miss you so much, 7cups was another home to me filled with family, and you were one of its closest members to me

ily too
i hope nothing but the best for you
if you ever need me im here

i dont plan on leaving until im ready, and im here for you no matter what 

ill miss you
-Mahmood(ive finally revealed my name!)

User Profile: Mahd12
Mahd12 June 27th

@midnightlily00 do u plan on returning? i didnts ee you past few days

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User Profile: midnightlily00
midnightlily00 OP June 27th

@Mahd12 Im still here, I js dont feel like going to grp chats anymore, how have you been?

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User Profile: Mahd12
Mahd12 June 27th

@midnightlily00 ahhh i see
so ull be on forums??
ive been pretty mid past few days, with some moments of good, nothing bad AlHamdullilAllah

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User Profile: midnightlily00
midnightlily00 OP June 27th

@Mahd12 Ill try to be, I dont think Im ready to completely leave yet, and Im glad to hear that nothings bad happened recently, and I hope you feel the best soon *hugs*, Im always here if you wanna talk

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@midnightlily00

Hi Lily, I do understand what you are saying about your friends no longer being here. That has got to be painful. But just as you made new friends when you came, could you not continue to make new friends? Is it possible that the group here is going to continually turning over? Could you continue to offer your unconditional friendship to the new members as they come in? Just a thought...

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User Profile: midnightlily00
midnightlily00 OP June 27th

@caringShoulder1357 what youre saying makes sense but its js that Im too tired now and I feel like a lot of ppl here dont like me, I dont like how the grp chat goes quiet as soon as I join the convo or when my messages dont get replied to, theres a lot of things, Im not leaving (hopefully) but a break is very important for me rn tbh

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User Profile: pinkCherry1616
pinkCherry1616 June 28th

@midnightlily00

One thing you could consider: maybe you could start a pen pal chat with the people who are special to you now. It would be just for your group. Maybe this way you could exist from what feels like to much while staying connected to those who matter to you?

No pressure though. If you feel that you need a break from everything, then it’s ok for you to take it.

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I'm so sorry that cups became this chaotic for you. We will miss you a lot💜💜💜

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User Profile: midnightlily00
midnightlily00 OP June 28th

@emotionalMaple2436 🤍🤍

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