Grieving and heartbreak
I’m sure I’m not the only one who has experienced a break up and then lost a parent. How do you deal and cope
@crimsonOcean3431 I really hate to be welcoming you to 7cups under these conditions, but I'm really glad you are. The fact you found 7cups, I believe, is a really good thing. I'm so sorry about what you are going through.
Breakups are no fun. Splitting from the person we ♡ and care for can leave us feeling so many feelings. That can truly be so heartbreaking. But keep in mind-- with time comes healing though.
Experiencing breakup is one thing, but to lose a paren-- that brings about a whole other pain. I'm truly sorry for your loss and I hope that you find healing. I hope that you are able to hold onto happy times and memories to help bring you comfort. ♡
I won't say "stay strong" because loss after loss is hard on anyone and I know sometimes when that happens, we have to process things. I want you to know that I'm glad you are here and that there are listeners you can reach out to whenever you need someone to talk to for some support. You can put a request in the queue and an available listener will accept and you can chat. Or if you like, you can browse for an available listener here and see if they are accepting new chats. There is support here for you that can help you during this tough time. Please take it one day at a time. ♡
Thank you. So glad I found this. It has been rough. Plus the past couple years have been horrible on top of it. I don’t deal with things I’m not sure how to. The loss of my mom was devastating plus the break up not only did I lose my person I lost 3 lil ones that I was attached to as well. So it’s like grieving of my mom on top of 4 others that are here but no communication. A lot of people say they admire me bc of everything I’ve overcome in the he past couple years and most couldn’t deal with it.
@crimsonOcean3431 Ohhh my, I'm so sorry to hear that. I can't imagine the pain you must. It makes perfect sense that losing your partner on top of the bonds with 3 kids would be considered a loss. I can see why others commend you for your strength. You've experienced a lot of pain and yet you're still here. That is strength. You are so strong and that's an admirable quality. I hope you have gained some support during your time on 7cups. ♡
I lost my partner, boyfriend and future plans as having baby. Betrayal always hurt, cheating when you have loved openly, sincerely.But it’s more common than we think, we have to be strong for our children. They are not guilty for it and need happy parent. You still have opportunity meet someone and be happy again. It’s his lost! Stay strong, need talk free feel to do it, I’m here :)
