Had you be in position of shutting down with people
Recently i don't find myself investing time in connecting with people even though i knew for me connecting with people is important for not feeling lonely. Still i find excuse if i am ask to give call or long chat. Don't why it happening ?
@wittyMap7054
I've felt the aversion at times also. It is valid to feel like not wanting to talk to people sometimes, we can be at our pace and take our time!
Perhaps it may be helpful to start slow in exploring how you feel around people, do certain people make socializing more difficult for you, your thoughts around the same, in general etc!
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Thank you for post.
Sun it seem i am tired of trying to take intitate in talking to people and putting effort more.
Don't know ... It just pin drop silent but little sadness inside.
Hey @wittyMap7054, how are you doing today?
That makes a lot of sense, it's so human of you to feel tired of being the one to initiate always and putting more effort. So natural to feel hurt by not having your efforts reciprocated, and acknowledged by others!
It's a good thing to be someone who iniates and tries their best to keep in touch with people, but you deserve reciprocity and respect here also!
I see how it's making you feel sad and numb inside.
Sometimes we cannot expect people to change, but we can put ourselves first and treat ourselves better. Yes, you deserve it too! What might help comfort your feelings? <3
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Being social animal i can't live isolated life that contrary to the feeling i feel.
Deep down i am sad about it.
Being busy help but it just distraction.
Sometime listener help wise word help me.
I move on thinking two way street relationship i deserve but than i look mostly my relationship are one way only. Being introvert i find hard to make friends.
Comfort i don't feel much. But i carry that discomfort n keep moving.
This is a completely normal feeling to have, sometimes it’s best to check in with yourself and your comfort level and to give yourself a break at times.
@SoaringEagle246
Thank you eagle.
Yes i than check my feeling. Try to take break.
Had you experience this feeling ?