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User Profile: fairmindedWater601
fairmindedWater601 March 1st, 2023

My name is fairmindedWater601, 28 years old my girlfriend is currently pregnant she is 7 months gone and i am just finding out that everything she told me about herself was a lie her previous relationships what caused the breakups and everything, she even cheated on me while i was away for a work trip before she gave me the news that she is pregnant so i am even doubting if i am responsible for the pregnancy.
My blood pressure too is not looking so good since my national service days and now i have to deal with this for some time now.

so i have been confused still over working myself with my two jobs because i need the money to take care of her and the unborn baby who might be mine i can't abandon her because of a doubt that i am not sure of but i also have to be healthy and her mother keeps giving me pressure anytime there is need for money for any activity related the pregnancy even when i dont have any money. I was referred here by an algorithm, i think it's called ChatGPT or something due to the questions i asked,

and honestly i feel i need this based on how i am feeling and what i have been going through.
That is by the way i happy to join this community and i hope with my experience here i will be able to help some just like myself.
I am a very open person and also love to meet new people

sorry about my previous post there were typos...

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 March 1st, 2023

@fairmindedWater601

well that is a complicated issue and while admirable that you are working so hard for baby ... i think you do deserve to know if it is yours regardless.

this should be between you and the mom to be and her MOM should back off.

I think you must have many feelings finding this person is not whom they pretended and lied to you and now a baby ( if yours) links you to them ........