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@itsliterallyme I'm new here, so I'm not sure if I'm following decorum correctly or not but I'm in a similar situation with my wife. Sometimes it's difficult, and part of any romantic relationship is to have those uncomfortable conversations when the need arises. You need your feelings and concerns to be heard, you both deserve honest and fair communication, tell them how you're feeling and why, and see where it goes from there. You got this :)

@itsliterallyme I had similar experience with my ex boyfriend few months after we moved in together. It may not be what you want to hear but I realised there was nothing I could do to get his attention or to talk to him unless he wanted to talk.

@itsliterallyme sometimes men need us to spell things out to them 😁 Communication is key, when we get settled in relationships, we can take them for granted and but for the spark to still be there, it requires effort, fun and time spent together. Wishing you both the best 

@itsliterallyme Hello I'm sorry to hear that you been feeling unseen I know you mentioned that you have talked to him before , but perhaps it's time to have this talk again , some helpful tips could be to ask yourself what I can say or ask differently then before ?  do remember communication is the key for a healthy long lasting relationship along with being happy , it's not fair that you feel unhappy in this . I wish you the best in your relationship 💓

@itsliterallyme if he isnt willing to marry you then he dont really love you. Thats my thought anyway. Sorry if it isnt what you want to hear

@itsliterallyme sorry to hear that. It does sound frustrating when he acts like you’re invisible. I’m in a similar situation. My partner and I used to talk a lot but not anymore now, and he spends his time on social media/video games etc. I later found out he was actually upset about me… feeling like his whole life is useless all because of me.  Sigh….. Anyways, I do think the most straightforward thing is to talk it out, like really, find a good time to talk things out calmly. If either one gets angry, that wouldn’t help. I hope you find a great solution to this. Sorry I’m also new here. Hope I adhered to all rules just fine 😅. 

My boyfriend got to be like this as well, would play computer games, wouldn’t want to plan to do anything with me or talk about his life or anything important, it sucks. We went on a break after months and months of being like that and he has admitted that he was depressed and at the time blamed me for his depression, after spending time apart he realised that it was his habits making him depressed and has since changed and made an effort to do things with me. It’s probably something going on with him that he’s not ready to confront yet.