Hey guys! I kind of need some help.
i like this girl, but we are really good friends and I don't want to ruin the frienship by telling her that I like her.
I asked a friend to tell her that I like her but she didn't respond yet and I'm afraid that I might ruined it. We are really close and I don't know what to do. She seems to like me.
When we are in a group and she talks she looks for me like she is searching from validation. we make eye-contact but like these signs might be just beause we are really good friends. she is giving me mixed-signals and I don't know what to do
What would you do
@goldenBeach293
Dear Beloved,
There is nothing wrong with sharing your thoughts and feelings with her. You can tell her that these are your feelings and that you are not expecting the same feelings from her. You are not saying that you love her; you can give her a slight indication of your feelings without hurting her.
If you do not share your feelings, she will never know them.
There could be many reasons why she didn't respond to the message conveyed through your friend. She could be shy, she could have wanted you to share them directly, or there could be any other reason.
Please do not be hurt if she does not have the same feelings for you. It is not always the case that the person we like likes us too. We are all different individuals, and we have different feelings and emotions.
You can share your feelings with her gently, just once. If you do not share them, you may continue to feel anxious about whether you should or should not. Follow your heart. Do what brings peace and relief to your heart and mind. After sharing your feelings, you can tell her that even if she does not feel the same way, you still want to remain close friends with her, as you were before.
Best wishes for your efforts.
Hi, @goldenBeach293
If you're going to share your feelings, I think it'd be better to do so directly and not through another friend.
You mentioned mixed signals. What kind of mixed signals is she sending?
Take care.