Horrible friend
Hey not sure if this is the right community but i have a friend who vaped ( bought 3 btw we are 13 ) hangs out with bad people and more . And it’s starting to take a toll on my mental health (wont say what happened but yeah and having thoughts of hurting myself cause of her clean for 3 weeks ) and me and my other friends don’t want to be friends with her anymore so we thought of wanting until the end of the year Since she’s changing schools And then blocking her on everything, leaving a message kind of explain explaining Why, but also by being delicate cause she has mental health problems . So yeah I’m wondering if this is a good way cause shes making me feel like crap anyways byeee
@Lolo368
so she is taking a toll on your mental well being ... alienating other friends and you are trying to be NICE to not offend her? you are young but i will let you know we come into contact with people our whole lives and it takes strength and practice but we need to cut them out sooner then waiting for the right moment as there is no right one..... your mental health is just as or more important then her feelings...
I know but she’s quite fragile and we’ve been friends for a while (2 years ) but since November I’ve been yo-yoing through depression and anxiety and she’s not helping (even made me try to yk and cause of her I am not clean from sh anymore) but she’s tried to yk multiple times even staying in the hospital last year for a week so I don’t know what to do and plus we are bffs but I don’t know if I will last next year if I don’t cut her off at the end of the year but I kinda don’t want to hurt her
@Lolo368 hey, just wanted to let you know that i would love to help you out if you ever need someone to talk!! i understand where you're coming from, but it's very nice of you to want to consider her mental health at the same time. like i mentioned, im always just a text away if you need to talk more :)
