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I'm pretty much clueless about friendship and romantic relationship.

User Profile: yuragalen
yuragalen December 11th, 2022

I'm 21 years old. I think I have built wall too tall around me. I mean my defense mechanism prevent me to have or to be in relationship and friendship.


I do wish to have a friend tho. But I'm a boring person to be around.So everybody leave me.


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User Profile: hopefulPond6108
hopefulPond6108 December 12th, 2022

@yuragalen Hey, learning to form relationships is just learning some new skills. If you show genuine interest in others you won’t seem boring. Learning to love yourself is also something that attracts others.

User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 December 12th, 2022

@yuragalen

If you built the wall around you ... then You can take it down as well ..... no one is that boring and you can change things when you chose to.... many people who think they are boring are in fact not

User Profile: Rachel22222
Rachel22222 December 12th, 2022

@yuragalen hey I'm 21 as well. If you'd like we can be friends! I hope I can help you want to climb over that well

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User Profile: yuragalen
yuragalen OP December 12th, 2022

Thank you, I would love that

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User Profile: philosophicalBalloon6405
philosophicalBalloon6405 December 12th, 2022

@yuragalen

personally, it was the same for me, But I would suggest going out there and seeing more people and working on your social skills, a great way to make friends is making a friend from your uni class or job,

I would also suggest reading how to influence people and make friends by Dale Carnegie


But that's al from me :)