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I think i am not good enough friends anymore

User Profile: catchmeifyoucangirl
catchmeifyoucangirl September 22nd, 2025

I feel like something never feels right when I meet new people 😕 or just in general. I feel really unhappy and just feeling like I am not wanted in the friendship group.

I think they tend go off me or just smirking like I can't even notice it , I don't know if it is a form of bullying or being nasty 🤔. I am a very sensitive person and get anxious when situations occur etc

Please help me

I am stuck 😑

Just feel really awful and fed up

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 September 23rd, 2025

@catchmeifyoucangirl

If they smirk, ridicule or belittle, they are not worth your time.

Never doubt yourself.

The right person will see what a great friend you are .

One good friend is better than a thousand fakes 💕💜

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User Profile: catchmeifyoucangirl
catchmeifyoucangirl OP September 29th, 2025

You are right @Amanda84 , i think i can't have any friends cause they must think i am not worthy their time or effort

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 September 29th, 2025

@catchmeifyoucangirl

You are worth their time and effort! 💕💜

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 September 29th, 2025

@catchmeifyoucangirl

friends are hard to make sometimes.... maybe at first people do not get us or we get them.... so many possibilities in it.    a look on a face is not enough to assume. 

Example a friend i walk every evening, knows many people,  someone approached us wanting to talk to her but felt they could not openly converse since i was there ..........the frustration  of the moment i saw on their face ......... i could have taken personally but the next time i ran into them they were as friendly as can be.   

other times I may have had looks on my face as several people are full of themselves and I do not have time to stroke their ego.   if they were openly unfriendly yes but we do not know what their mood or situation is at the moment we meet. 

User Profile: bubblegumArrow9103
bubblegumArrow9103 September 30th, 2025

@catchmeifyoucangirl 


Here’s the thing: sometimes our minds can convince us that people dislike us, even when the reality isn’t as harsh. Anxiety has a way of making us overanalyze every look or laugh. But even if people are being unkind, that says more about them than it does about you. You deserve respect and genuine friendship.


You clearly care deeply about connection that’s not a weakness, it’s a strength. But it also means you feel hurt more intensely. Try to notice the people who actually do treat you kindly, and give more of your energy to them. Not everyone in a group will be “your people,” and that’s okay finding the right friends sometimes takes time.