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Marriage blues/ Gut feeling tells me this is wrong

User Profile: optimisticComputer3567
optimisticComputer3567 November 15th, 2024

I'm engaged and supposed to get married in a few months. As the days are nearing I'm finding more and more red flags in my relationship. I tried talking to my fiancé about them, but his only suggestion is to get myself a therapist. I can talk more about it if someone wants to listen. I'm feeling very overwhelmed.


Lately, I have been connecting with listeners who just stop responding in the middle of the conversation and that makes me feel worse.

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 November 16th, 2024

@optimisticComputer3567

It is hard when a listener does not follow thru .... i am just a member...... i hope you find a listener that follows thru. 

you could try to find a therapist but red flags  and apprehension can be signs to stop before it is harder to walk away. ..........listen to your heart  .. do you want to go thru with marriage..... he should want to talk with you.... assure you it is cold feet  .... not just tell you to get therapy....