My FP/boyfriend blocked me
I have BPD and my FP, who is also my boyfriend, suddenly blocked me everywhere except one app after a fight. He told me he needed space, but instead of explaining or talking it out, he just blocked me and even my friends.
The confusing part is that only hours before this, he told me he loved me, could never get tired of me, and even promised marriage and a future together. Now he’s ignoring me completely.
I’ve sent him a lot of messages because I feel so desperate without him, but I don’t know if he’ll ever come back. I don’t understand how he could promise me so much and then leave me like this. How do I cope with the waiting and the fear that it’s really over?
Will he ever come back to me? I feel like it’s my fault and that no one will ever love me for who I am.
@tinyberrybun
No one who truly loves you would block you!
They would talk it out.
Hear you out.
You deserved that much.
The right person will completely love you for you.
Don't ever forget that!
I wouldn't be sending him.sny messages at all!
If he wants to come back, let him but don't do all the chasing!
You matter too, not just him!
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thank you so much 𥺠this made me feel better
@tinyberrybun
You are most welcome, I'm glad it did!
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@tinyberrybun Hi, I’m new to 7 cups so this is my first response, sorry if it’s not helpful.
Sounds like avoidant behavior. I've done similar things.
@tinyberrybun
I am so sorry you are going through this, Bun. I am here for you, and if you ever need someone to talk to, don't hesitate to DM me!
You did not deserve to be blocked this way, and I am so sorry.
@tinyberrybun experienced this before and all I can say is DO not wait for someone who can just blick you with no further explanation. I personally wouldn't trust him because normally those who block like that will do it again.
@amusingWest5360 block*
You can cope with the waiting by staying distracted doing things you enjoy and practicing extreme self care. I know it’s really really hard but I do believe very strongly that it’s not your fault and someone wonderful and worthy of you will definitely love you for who you are. Praying and sending positive energy and thoughts your way. You are stronger than you think and you are not alone. 💛
Love yourself first darling
