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Hi all. I need somewhere that I can vent and maybe get some opinions. I am no spring chicken and still can't seem to figure out my life. I'm in a relationship that I probably shouldn't be in, but I am so easy going that I have a very hard time standing up to people and they tend to take advantage. So maybe I can pick up some ideas on how to work on my self esteem and how to confront people. I had a situation tonight that I am just absolutely flabbergasted about and I'm having a hard time processing. I am shocked and mad as *** about something my partner said and I have no idea how to respond without losing it. Tomorrow is going to be a very quiet day because I really don't have anything to say to him at the moment. Thanks for reading.