No friends since birth
How to live normal like everyone else? I have this fear on befriending someone for i have lots of secrets that I'm keeping within me. I envy those who are normal and i wished I'm one of em
@Onion19
there is no normal ....
most people have secrets some much bigger then others ...
making friends does not mean sharing all especially if you do not want to and if you do study your friend to see if you feel they will not betray your trust.
I myself find in the current environment, i seldom share deeply because people seem to not be able to keep secrets anymore. Seems like everyone is more inclined to share if they think it makes them look more interesting.
It's scary to be close to someone coz betraying one another is a trend nowadays
@Onion19
Because in my opinion we lost the art of true friendship when social media came along a hit a few like buttons and send some emojis is not what friends used to be like .........
friendship used to mean more ..... look on social media people are defined by how many not how many you actually know or would give up a day off to help move/ sit in a hospital holding their hand if needed or anything else that defined real friends ........ people now are more likely to "share" your confidences because they are running out of their own stories and no one cares what they had for lunch......
it is a shame the younger generations no longer have the connection i saw / had instead it is all about superficial nonsense
