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Please give me some advice or help

User Profile: thenormal01
thenormal01 August 23rd, 2023

Hi everyone,

Hope you are doing well.

I apologise if my English is bad.

I'm going to leave my first job and the thing is the person(a women) who is my immediate supervisor is acting strange like she is trying to avoid contact and restricting her conversations with me even though I don't know what I did . But when with others she acts all laughs and fun and jovial you get what I mean. So I have been having this thought as to what happened and me being an overthinking and think before you talk person am deeply troubled by it so to the this community I ask what should I do? Any tips or advice? Thanks and have a good day

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 August 23rd, 2023

@thenormal01

Sometimes it is hard to fit in to a crowd ..... in my last job they did team building and often drank at bars for this team build thing as a non drinker i did not feel obligated to go and just sit while they drank and got drunk perhaps i would have ended up the driver or something but they had inside jokes and things in common i did not have ....... there is always the odd person out in a job situation IMO.

those of us that overthink and carefully monitor what we say often come off as if we are disinterested in joining conversations or shy.....